April 25th, 2012

SheStreams Conference and Recap

I’ve been to SheStreams twice now. First, for the inaugural conference in September 2011 in NYC and then to the twice-as-nice SheStreams in 2012 in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida. I love this conference for so many reasons: the size, the sophistication, and the specialization. The three “S”s, if you will, that make up the three “S”s in SheStreams.

With the privilege of speaking this year, as well as the location in Florida during a dreary winter here in the Northwest, it was a conference that I was really looking forward to attending. I got to see some friendly-faces, but I got to chat with many more. It is always a privilege to meet the face behind the tweet.

Yet, it really comes down to the sponsors, who always amaze me in their belief that women bloggers have a powerful voice in which they recognize, and, of course, the founder of SheStreams (and the ultimate Power Mom herself) Maria Bailey, who, like many, I’m in awe of her professionalism, as well as her intelligence. She is a fast moving ship in the social media sea, and to be on her boat, for a brief time, is always a rockin’ experience.

I also enjoyed meeting her staff in person. (Such an amazing group of talent.) And I enjoyed putting my Mom hat away for forty-eight hours. Sometimes, that, in itself, is priceless. I could go on in on, but suffice to say that if you haven’t been to SheStreams yet, definitely put it on your social media conference list.

Here is a brief video recap of this year’s event in hope that it may inspire you to join me at SheStreams 2013!

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(Many thanks to AT&T, who provided me with a complimentary Samsung phone to capture the memories.)

March 12th, 2012

Hallmark at Blissdom

Hallmark was a suite sponsor at the 2012 Blissdom Conference. They shared an amazing array of cards from Birthdays to Just Because. Neat new designs (think a slide out pocket) and new sound cards that are a huge hit in our family. Each Blogger could pick a card to send to another Blogger at the conference or send to someone back home. I chose to send one to my 2 year old who has fallen in love with Hallmark sound cards. So any time you need to send an encouraging word or a push of inspiration, head to Hallmark! They have a lot from which to choose and it is so much fun to see the smile you can put on someone’s face.

February 9th, 2012

Blissdom Speaks Videos

I had the great opportunity to submit a video each week to Blissdom Speaks: part of the Blissdom pre-conference preparations, with various Bloggers coming together to get excited for one amazing conference. Many of us shared our thoughts, our goals, our dreams and our love for Blissdom.

I made an effort to submit something each week. Why? Because I wanted to give something back to what Blissdom gave to me. Here are all of the finished videos. Enjoy! And if you never have been to Blissdom, I hope this will inspire you to find your Bliss next year.

and How Would you Describe Blissdom to Someone Who has Never Been?



And here is an inspiring video for woman in social media.




What Does Hope Mean to You?


January 31st, 2012

Tips for Blissdom Alum

There is a lot of talk about what newcomers to Blissdom can do to have a great experience and a great time at Blissdom. Everything from how to prepare your kids and your partner for your absence, to what great pair of shoes to bring and what to pack in your suitcase. If the newcomer, however, is standing in the corner at lunch with fabulous shoes and a great new sweater, then it is a fail.

Much of the onus is on new Blissdom attendees to personally shape the outcome of their own Blissdom experience, but we would be amiss if we didn’t talk about how the actions of Blissdom alum can be a big part of the newcomer experience too.

Tip #1
1. Don’t immediately mention how many years you have been blogging. I really don’t know many professionals that do that. For example, when people ask me what I do for a living, I say I am an attorney. I don’t say, I am an attorney and I have been writing laws for 15 years. Sure, it is who you are, but make it part of a conversation later on. Otherwise, you are just going to freak out the newcomer who will now think her new blog she started last year is not worthy of anything.

Tip #2
In our advice to newcomers, we tell them not to be afraid to walk up to people and say hello. Or if you see a space at a table for lunch, sit down with women you don’t know. However, if you are that person who is already sitting at a table with your best blogging buds, don’t turn your head back to the conversation after someone sits down. Make eye contact, smile and perhaps mention what is the topic of conversation. Then make sure to share inside jokes at the table, like “We are all laughing because Charlene had to sing karaoke during her legal panel last year because the sound system didn’t work.” (Sadly, a true story…)

Tip #3
There are going to be a lot of crowded rooms for various sessions that are really popular, but if you see a new mom with her baby, a pregnant woman, or a blogger in a knee cast, offer your seat even if it means catching up with friends after the session is over. I know it seems like a no-brainer, but sometimes we can get lost in the chatter and forget to look up and see that someone needs some help (or a new friend).

Tip #4
It has been mentioned that newcomers will see tweets about dinner plans being made and that they should jump into the fray. In reality, that is easier said than done. If your group does want to invite other people to come along, say it in your tweets. It makes it a lot easier for someone else to jump in to the dinner-making plans if they know you are welcoming.

Tip #5
A lot of bloggers know each other from years of blogging or going to blog conferences, and they will say they are not being cliquey, but just catching up. That is true, but it still looks cliquey regardless of intentions. So consciously leave an empty chair or leave a gap in a standing circle. If you happen to see someone looking for a seat in a session or at breakfast, flag them over. Blogging besties are great, but so is meeting new bloggers.

Tip #6
Break away from the pack. Again, it is natural to hang with people you know, but once a day, go solo. See who you will meet. Put aside your number of Twitter followers or your power in the Blogaverse and keep it real. Get back to your roots and find inspiration in a new friend. People follow you because they think you are funny or cool. Show them it is real.

All in all, our individual Bliss comes from what we put into it. Our Blissdom experience can be fierce based on what comes out of it. So if you are a newcomer reading this, welcome, and take all the advice and make it work for you. But if you are a Blissdom alum, the newcomer experience starts with us. There are a lot of fabulous people to meet, so meet them halfway.

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Charlene is a Vlogging Community Leader at Blissdom and is always up for hanging with people and making new blogging friends. Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, Google+ – you will find her there. And then at Blissdom 2012!

January 9th, 2012

My Blissdom Hello

For my fellow Blissdom attendees, here is a quick video hello! Can’t wait to catch up again, or meet you for the first time at Blissdom 2012! As a community leader for Vlogging and video, I look forward to helping you get in front of the camera for the first time, or take your videos to the next level! Leave a comment and let me know what is your biggest video challenge or fear!

January 3rd, 2012

Video Success in 2012

In the 1980s, “video killed the radio star“. According to a lot of posts in the Blogosphere this week about how to be a successful Blogger, video may propel you to being a blogging star in 2012.

Great posts came from Blogger Jennifer James of Mom Blogger Magazine where she shared her 15 Mom Blogging Predictions for 2012. Another fabulous post came from Hormone Colored Days where the post focused on how social media Moms will fare in 2012. Social Media companies also jumped on the bandwagon with blogging tips to incorporate in the new year, like the 12 Tips for Revitalising your Blog, by ProBlogger.

While everyone has different takeaways from these various posts, the one theme I consistently saw was that web videos, vlogging and otherwise non-static blog content is “IT” for 2012. In other words, get those cameras rolling people.

Now, I am biased because it is something that I use frequently on my blog, and even started a live show last spring that I just reformatted for a relaunch later this month. But many bloggers seem to have a fear about going in front of the camera after being behind the computer for so long.

I am not going to say it is easy. It is not. People can be even more cruel on YouTube or on your video posts than on your written content, but when should that stop you? You also don’t need fancy equipment, subscriptions and gadgets to start. So no excuses there. You probably have the tools you need to record, upload and share a video right now. And it is not to replace blogging, just supplement it. Having a video in a blog post enables your readers a choice on how they want to absorb the content. Plus, if folks are at work, many can’t watch video because of various corporate restrictions. But having video does expand your reach if you also have it on YouTube and your blog. It also helps with Google search-ability since Google seems to like videos.

For those of you going to Blissdom this year, I will be one of the Community Leaders in Vlogging. So find me and let’s connect. Consider going to the SheStreams conference in March, which is all about video work. (Fingers crossed that you will see me as a speaker there too.)

All in all, let get started. Let’s support each other. Don’t let fear deter you. The only thing that is, may be some knowledge, and that is what I am here for. Follow me on Twitter or Facebook to see the video content I’ll be sharing in the weeks ahead. Let’s get rolling!

P.S. Here is one fast video post I did a couple of months ago. No makeup, no fancy equipment, but it shows how video in this case tells a better story than words ever could tell.

October 27th, 2011

Making Your Blog Social

Tips and Strategies for Promoting your Content.

As I mentioned in my recap of the Wordcamp Conference in Boston, I sat in on a session where the focus was on making your blog functional (see my post here) and on a session where the focus was making your blog social. Not Buddypress kind of social, but a discussion about content marketing. Being social (i.e., marketing your content) increases your web presence and sharing your blog posts grows your market; whether your goal is to sell your stuff, create a community, increase awareness of a cause or get more followers. It hopefully improves your social experience and the social experience of those who are on your site. It basically was a reminder that if you blog, you probably should Tweet and post on Facebook push your content, because if SEO is important for those that do a Bing or Google search for a topic and land on your blog, you need to be proactive too, if you have one of the above goals.

Some ways to do this are to create blogs that also have video content on YouTube or photographs on Flickr or Slideshare. Then you use Facebook, Twitter and LinkedIn to spread the information you created. With that one blog post, you have broadcasted in 5 social mediums. If time is a factor, there are a variety of plugins that can automatically do that for you via your WordPress blog, like Network Publisher.

Another way to promote your content is to have a subscriber list, but make sure to note it is free. Remember, not everyone understands that that your “Subscribe to my Blog” is a free thing. Especially since a lot of websites are beginning to charge people. Also be upfront with the information about your subscription list: How often will you be emailing them? Will you sell their information?

Lastly, have buttons at the beginning or end of your post to make it easy for your readers to share your post. Plug-ins or tools like the Facebook ShareTweetmemeTwitter RetweetSexy BookmarksAdd to AnySocializeFacebook Like, to make sharing your blog post super easy. Just don’t make it too busy or have too many buttons. That may actually hurt your goal. Pick one or two plug-ins, or one or two buttons where you most want to have your content shared. And as always, back up your blog before you install any new plug-ins. While these are some examples, they may not work for all. Always review to determine what plug-in is right for your blog, both in the social sense as discussed here, but in a technical sense too!

So what do you think? Do you currently use any of these plug-ins? Do you have a plug-in you love that is not list here?

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October 10th, 2011

Disney Mom

The day I came back from my Disney Vacation with my husband and toddler, I got this email. (Ironic, isn’t it.)

Yup. Rejected. Again.

This is the third time I have applied. I am not sure what I am saying (or not saying) that is not getting me to the next round, but I have to say, it stings.

While some local bloggers have stated that I am not a ‘big’ enough blogger to merit the attention from the likes of Disney, I thought it was more about my knowledge of Disney. Not sure what is the percentage of Disney Panel applicants that have been to Disney more than 30 times, have done every Disney tour possible and have even run 26.2 miles on Disney property, but I even took a trip with my 23 month old to keep up with the Disney happenings as it pertains to young children: took the time to talk to cast members, chatted with other Moms at the water parks or in the rider swap lines. So to say I was serious about my application? Totally.

Disney Family Picture

So once again, the opportunity passes me by, and my hopes for getting an invitation to the Disney Social Moms Conference diminishes too. Though I did get an invite to attend the first Disney Social Media Moms conference, I was still post-partum and wasn’t cleared to fly. But the same blogging community also said that other ‘bigger’ bloggers’ should get invites before me to that event too.

Whatever.

So while I am not an official Disney Mom anything, I do know a lot and will be sharing my recent Disney experience with you all. I suppose this way I can be brutally honest and give you the good and bad of Disney based on my 30+ years of Disney experience. So stay tuned for some funny (and real) Disney Mom posts. Even if I am not a ‘big blogger’ or an ‘official’ Disney Mom.

So later gators – I’m off to look into a Disney Cruise….

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May 25th, 2011

Blogging Conferences

The Dos and Don’ts of Social Media Conferences

I have been fortunate to attend several blogging/social media related conferences this year; at times as a speaker and at times as an attendee. All in all, I am a Blogging/Social Media Conference newbie, but it was immediately clear when I walked into the opening keynote at SheCon, that something was off.

I touched upon the industry lessons in my first post, and it provides a segway into the lessons for all conferences. This post is not going to focus on details like whether water was available or whether or not lunch was offered, but overall concepts that shape the space.

Many kuddos to the organizers for running such an event. Yet, there are lessons to be learned for all social media conferences, the social media industry and the people engaged within it. The ideas presented are based on my past experiences as a project manager, event planner and seminar organizer, as well as my observations at SheCon and other social media conferences. They are only my thoughts and every conference attendee has different experiences for which to relate. However, you know that you hit the nail on the head when the thoughts seem to reflect the majority.

1. Conference Cost. Conferences should cost something, and the SheCon conference was free. While I love free, there was no incentive for people to actually attend. Having even a small fee would provide a level of investment. It would have perhaps provided water, lunch or even Internet access, which would engage the participant, enable them to be invested, and eliminate minor concerns that can negatively impact the experience.

2. Constant Communication. Conferences are a juggling act, but the key is to not show the juggle. Clear and constant communication with the attendees provides a sense of community, even when things inevitably go awry.  Simple tweets communicating schedule changes or room re-assignments do wonders for positive flow. Making verbal announcements or handwritten signs in a pinch is better than conference attendees wandering aimlessly or realizing after a panel has started that they are in the wrong room. Dissatisfaction spreads quickly, which leads to the next point.

3. Rapid Response.  It should be expected that things will go wrong, but is it how the conference organizers handle the snafus that makes all the difference. I saw several tweets (some of them mine) asking for assistance during the SheCon conference. Rarely did I see the official conference organizers respond to the questions or concerns. While the community often stepped in with answers or support, it would have been better to see the conference brand itself engage at a great level with the conferees. It adds a level of connection, brand exposure and positive reinforcement of leadership.

4. Organized Response. Each conference should have a designated person to constantly be scanning the conference #hashtag. Not the person or persons who are running the conference, (who are often running around putting out the preverbial fires), but someone who is connected to the conference, familiar with the goals of the conference for consistent voice. This person should be able to devote time to handle problems, and to be consistently present in the space. Again, to show engagement, leadership and brand exposure.

5. Speaker Expertise. Speakers are the face of a conference, and often it is not what they say but how they say it and where they engage. In addition to rockin’ speaker proposals, speakers should be interviewed by phone. While they may be subject matter experts, do they effectively communicate that expertise? How do they present themselves? This factor is just as important as the panel topic as it reflects on the conference brand. Perhaps speaker references or video introductions would provide additional assurance that the speaker is the best fit for the particular conference and its goals.

6. Speaker Engagement. All speakers should be required to volunteer or assist in other areas of the conference. Again, they reflect the conference itself. Speakers that are approachable are often thought of more positively and positive thoughts transition to the conference as a whole.

7. Attendee Support. I was shocked when I found out that I had to pay $12.95 a day for Internet service at SheCon, and at Mom 2.0, Internet was sporadic and spotty. Appropriate tools are essential. At a social media conference, Internet is essential. At a pharmaceutical conference, it may be pens and paper. All in all, attendees need the tools and support to have a successful conference experience, and it should be checked and rechecked to ensure consistency. If the conference is unable to provide such support, it should state it clearly in the materials. A notice, for example, that Internet would not be provided at SheCon, would have minimized the shock and frustration. At Mom 2.0, the hotel did have internet technical support on hand, which assisted in ‘frustration management’.

8. Functional Space. When looking for conference space, consider the vibe of the space based on layout. Having all breakout rooms, exhibitors, and lounges in close proximity enables better engagement.  It fosters a positive environment as the number one reason most people attend conferences is for the networking opportunity. At SheCon, the rooms were far apart. At Mom 2.0, it was in an L shaped layout, which split the crowds.

So it is not about lunch, water or if the coffee was any good, but the functionable space, the response of the conference organizers and the engagement of the speakers.

While each conference location can effect the conference as a whole, and the experience of the staff at the conference hotel is often outside the control of the conference organizers, each of the points above are within the scope of possibility to ensure an amazing conference and a positive buzz; even after the closing keynote speaker has gone home.

May 23rd, 2011

Brands, Bloggers and Conferences

Brands and BloggersThe SheCon Conference was the reason for my first trip to Miami, and the Shelbourne South Beach Hotel was the home base during my brief stay.  I say brief because within 24 hours of my arrival, I was booking my departure. While I met some amazing bloggers and brands, the overall impact of my trip showed there are lessons to be learned.

In this three-part post, the first focus will be on brand engagement at social media conferences. The second post topic will be on how hotels can be better prepared to host Bloggers. The third and last post will offer suggestions to better enhance a positive blogging conference.

While experiences can vary from Blogger to Blogger, there was much expressed dissatisfaction during the two days in Miami. From brands that were extremely disappointed in the outcome of the conference return on investment (ROI), to fellow bloggers who were disappointed in information; the common response was that they would not be back.

Despite my own personal frustrations, I found myself having to justify Blogging conferences. Explaining to brands that not all Blogging conferences are alike and encouraging Bloggers to consider Blogging Conferences as a whole. Yet, the overall theme is research. Brands should do due diligence for conference participation and sponsorships, and Bloggers should consider factors such as cost and opportunities.

First, is the mission of the conference clear, and does it meet your brands’ mission? What do you want to get out of the conference? Is it just name recognition? Is it one-on-one engagement with Bloggers/Brands? Is it establishment of a long-term partnership? Is it to pass along written materials? Allow hands on interaction with the product?

Second, where is the conference being held? What are the space options? Does it allow for brand/Blogger mingling? Does it showcase your product in the way you want it to be showcased? Does it showcase you in the way you want to be showcased?

Third, who is hosting the conference? Do they have conference experience? Have they planned a conference before or assisted with a conference before? Do they have conference planning references? If the answer is no, what is the level of risk your brand wants to take on an unknown factor. It could be a big splash or a big flop, so clear understanding of the risk factor is key. The greater the risk, and/or the less tolerance for it, may determine ultimate participation or overall investment.

One brand I spoke with offline was very disappointed in the outcome of their investment at the SheCon conference. Furthermore, their entire social media budget was riding on this conference. According to the brand representative, the total traffic to the booth was 50 people, which for them, did not justify the cost. I ended spending time in the booth, not talking about the product, but about conferences, the value of bloggers, and urging them to considering giving both another chance. (In the conference space, I had a similar conversation with a couple of Bloggers too.) I managed to change their minds. However, for the brand, a blown budget and a now ‘gun-shy’ CEO who will need to be convinced to invest in us again, their re-engagement won’t be until 2012. Thus, 2011 will be a year of lost opportunity, for both them and us.

So the point is, even if you did not attend SheCon or if you did and had a wonderful experience, if you have been to other conferences or not, we should all be concerned with this feedback. We want brands to be engaged with the Blogging Community, and to spread the word about the power and pizzazz of women bloggers. Conferences are a great start and starting point. We all need to rally behind Blogging conferences to urge their success as it can reflect on us as a whole. Yet, quantity is not as important as quality. So if you are considering hosting a conference, think about whether your conference is value added, whether you can do it justice and the overall impact it could have on the brand/blogger community.

We have all heard the phrase; it is not just the journey, but also the destination. In this instance, it is not about tenacity, but the final perception and the lessons learned, for all of us.

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