September 14th, 2011

Mom Struggles

What are they and how do you handle them?

You know what is the biggest struggle of mine? Laundry, but not in the way you think.

Here is another struggle of mine: trying not to look like Mom frump. Or trying to get the snot from my kid’s nose before he wipes it on the furniture. Or trying to figure out what to make for dinner when I forgot to defrost the chicken.

We have a lot of worries, and according to a recent Eversave survey, here are our biggest ‘Keep-us-up-at-night’ troubles:

We can’t get rid of our style snafus, our laundry hurdles, or financial frets. So the best bet is to do the best we can and find ways to rest our minds (and our shoulders) on occasion. As well as, perhaps, realize that imperfection is the new perfect. (A fellow blogger wrote a great book about how ‘good enough’ is the new perfect. A fabulous read!)

Whether it is cutting ourselves some slack that the house does not have to be fully vacuumed and dusted before our mother-in-law comes over, or finding a moment for ourselves between soccer practice, ballet class and baking 24 cupcakes for the last minute bake sale; it is key for our health because our families rely on us everyday. Since we don’t get sick days, we need to find ways to relax and recharge so we can get back into the game. It could be a bubble bath, a walk, a nice dinner, or a book to read. For me though, it can’t get better than a massage or a mani-pedi.

Congrats to Angela on winning a mani/pedi giveaway!

September 13th, 2011

Spa Week 2011

July 12th, 2011

Gilt Summer Spectacular

Are you a Gilt-y Mom?

Luckily a year ago I found, and fell in love with, Gilt.com. You don’t have to wait for semi-annual clearance sales, random store discount code emails, or a deal site to offer discounts for kid gear in-between restaurant deals. Gilt.com has the latest authentic designer trends on sale - everyday.

After having my son, I realized pretty quickly that not all kid clothing is made well. I might have paid $3 for a pair of baby sweatpants, but after a couple of washes and one play-date, the sweatpants were in shreds. The designer brands faired better as they lasted through countless washings and crawling sprees, but the prices often grew faster than my toddler.

I started shopping in consignment shops, looking for designer brands at bargain prices, but with a toddler in tow, that task proved to be too much of a challenge. Plus, it was hit or miss, and when I missed, I felt the time to drive there, get the stroller out of the car, try to keep my toddler entertained while I combed through the racks, tested my sanity one too many times.

Gilt.com has it all, with new sales starting all the time and no schlepping to the store with the kids. Just click away whenever and wherever. If you are at the beach or on your lunch break at work, you can be shopping for back-to-school clothes, a new bathing suit, or some toys to keep the kids entertained if it rains. All at 60% off retail. How fabulously multi-tasking is that? With the time and money you’ll save, maybe scope out something for yourself too. (Yes, we do exist in the family structure, right?)

In addition to the Children’s section, they have Women, Men, Food, Travel, Restaurants, and Gifts. Many of the sections have sub-sections so you can really narrow down what you are looking for if you need to find something quickly, like for housewarming gifts, gifts under $50, bridal shower or baby shower gifts to name a few. Plus, unlike other sites where you click on the link only to find out it was sold out hours ago, if it is sold out, they let you know. You can also choose to be added to a waiting list of whatever you may have missed.

I think Gilt.com is a great resource for quality toys, designer items, one-of-a-kind trips, unique finds and exclusive local experiences. If that is what you are looking for, then this site delivers bargains with authenticity and without gimmicks; just awesome stuff and fabulous prices. With most products shipped at $5.95, you can shop from home without sacrificing style, quality or your wallet. So if you want to check them out, here is a discount code for $10 off a $50 purchase. It is only good until July 18th so skedaddle over there soon. However, I have a $100 Gilt.com credit to give to one of you. (Yes, $100 dollars. Yes, I will wait until you pick yourself up off the floor.)

To enter to win the $100 Gilt.com credit to use on whatever you like on their site, “like” the Gilt Children Facebook Page and leave a comment on their page saying “I just liked Gilt Children thanks to CharleneChronicles.com.” Or tweet “I’m a new fan of @GiltChildren thanks to @CharChronicles”. You can also leave a comment below about your favorite children’s item for sale on Gilt.com right now. Each will get you one entry, though you can tweet and comment as many times as you want for extra entries. Any new Charlene Chronicles or Metrowestmamas Facebook likes will also get you an entry.

Even if you don’t win the $100 credit, head over to their Gilt Children’s Facebook Page to join in on the Summer Spectacular. There are discussions about summer trips and tips with kids, as well as the latest savvy summer scorcher finds. Totally hot.

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Rules: (Gotta have them)

Leave a comment about this post; US entrants welcome. Include your name and email in the appropriate fields so I can contact you if you win. (Including just first name or first name + last initial is OK!). Anonymous or SPAM-like comments will be discarded. Entry period closes at 11:59PM EST, Saturday, July 16, 2011.

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*One lucky winner (drawn randomly via WordPress Plugin “And the Winner Is”) will receive the $100 Gilt.com credit. The winner will be notified directly via e-mail, then listed back at this post using first name only. The winner has 24 hours to respond or another winner will be selected. Charlene Chronicles is not responsible for wrong email addresses or notification being tagged as spam. The winner must also be a member of Gilt.com in order to receive the $100 Gilt.com credit. No cash or credit substitute.

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When I heard about the Gilt Children Summer Spectacular, and the opportunity to share a discount code and a $100 Gilt giveaway, I had to pass along my longstanding fan-ness of this website. Many thanks to The Motherhood and Gilt for compensating me for my time!
June 15th, 2011

Summer Wardrobe Essentials

So what are the must have pieces for this summer? You know, the ‘wardrobe essentials’ to have on hand to be instantly trendy and fashionable. (Well, as much as we can with baby spit-up on our shirt and dirty diapers in our handbags.) Here are six you should find and add to your closet.

(1) The Perfect Short: Short-short or longer short. Either one (though I am envious if you get to wear the former).

(2) Black Sandal: Think Gladiator. Own it and wear it. Nuff said. So it may require some pedicures, but it may be worth it.

(3) Day Dress: A cute dress. Super simple. One that you can throw in the wash so you don’t feel like you have to save it for a special occasion. Make it a comfortable too. No worry about booby-flash or panty peek-a-boo when dealing with active toddlers.

(4) Pop of Color: Whatever suits your fancy. Hot pink handbag? Bold Blue necklace? Bright Yellow headband? Pick one and rock it. Even if you are doing laundry.

(5) Summer Knit: Though the thought of a knit sweater in the summer may have you breaking out in sweat, the key to summer style is layers. Just pick soft, barely there knits to throw over the cut little tank tops for some pizazz.

 

(6) One Summary Statement Piece: Like a big hat or wow earrings. Something that you can throw on to be instantly glam and cool when the temperatures rise.

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Images used with permission from TJMaxx and Marshalls! Where you can find wardrobe essentials for great prices!

 

May 31st, 2011

Moms Fashion File

My fashion intervention

There are many fashion and style challenges for Moms. Here is a 4 minute video sharing my style snafus, and there are many of them. Shirts that are too short after a pregnancy? Check. Hats and sweatpants for school dropoff? Check. No clothes to wear to a casual coffee meet-up other than a cocktail dress and stripper heels? Check.

So what are your style dilemmas? Share them with me, as I am submitting this video to the Moms Fashion File in hopes that some secret Mom Style agents, otherwise known as the M.O.M squad, at BlogHer 11 will surround me and whisk me off to a Style Session (like you see in What Not To Wear episodes, minus the 2-week-really-embarassing-undercover video footage), where I can learn some tips that I can share with you.

(There is hope for us my friends. There is hope.)

April 1st, 2011

Getting Gorgeous NYC

One week ago today was Getting Gorgeous in New York City. Niri, from MommyNiri, and I shot some funny footage from “before and after” our trip. The video was shot on my iPad, and on the train, so can we say bad lighting? (Oy, it’s bad.) But good times, good friends and a fabulous event (plus super yummy cupcakes) is the takeaway.

March 24th, 2011

Moroccan Oil

The hair savor.

There is one hair product I have been using for quite some time. Since the fall of 2009 actually. Strangely, I was on the cutting edge of this one, as I was using it before anyone had heard of it before. Yet, it is becoming popular, being stocked in more places, featured in magazines, and getting chatted up everywhere. So the secret is out and I had to share this cool product, during Charlene Chronicles’s Beauty and Fashion Week of course. I mean, we have chatted about great skin, fabulous makeup, beautiful outfits and accessories. But the crowning glory (non pun intended) is on the top of our head.

It is called Moroccan Oil.

Now, this the brand I use. I specify it because there are a lot of other brands out there, and this is supposedly the first marketed Moroccan oil, the original if you will. Now they have even more products under the line. Everything from the oil to shampoos, conditioners and other styling products.

For those of us that hair parched hair, this product (per their website claims) revives hair, strengthens and conditions, and reduces drying time. All I can say is that it makes my hair look less frizzy, feel softer, and easy to style. My trifecta.

They also have a lighter oil for folks with lighter and thinner hair, but since I have neither of those, I can’t comment personally. I have only heard rave reviews from friends that have such tresses.

All in all, it is a hot product. You can find it in specialty salons or online at Soap.com. You can read about it in these magazine articles. They even have a travel version, which is great because frankly, I can’t leave home without it.

All in all, it rounds out my daily routine and it is a ‘must beauty have’ on my list.

 

March 23rd, 2011

Spring and Summer Fashion Trends

For Beauty and Fashion Week here at CharleneChronicles, we have talked about beauty. Specifically, skin care and makeup routines. Now let’s talk fashion. What are the trends for spring? And how can we fit it into our wardrobe without breaking the bank?

I am a huge fan of Marshalls and T.J. Maxx, even since I was a kid. However, let’s just say that in high school, in the 80s, that was not the place to be seen. Fast forward 20+ years, and it is the place to get luxe labels, trendy tees, designer denim, hot handbags, sweet shoes and more. However, most people (I admit, even me a tiny bit) wondered if those tees, labels, denim and shoes may have been past season. As a result, I was invited to their spring launch where media and bloggers got to see some of the spring fashion trends, talk to representatives from Marshalls and TJMaxx, as well as nosh on some nibbles (bonus!).

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I spent over an hour chatting with some great representatives from both Marshalls and T.J. Maxx. In the various conversations, many myths I had about these two companies were dispelled. Here are some of the insights I learned:

1. Marshalls and T.J. Maxx don’t carry the same merchandise. No two stores are ever the same — not even two T.J. Maxx stores. That’s what makes off-price shopping so much fun, and why so many customers shop both stores.

2. Marshalls and T.J. Maxx aren’t discount stores. They are off-price retailers who use their buying power to get great value on brand-name merchandise and pass those savings on to us. Less than five percent of the merchandise has unnoticeable irregularities and if irregular, it is clearly noted on the price tag.

3. Marshalls and T.J. Maxx is in-trend and in-season. They have their own company distribution centers so they can move merchandise through to the stores super fast. That way, they offer a continual flow of fresh merchandise; each store receives three to four shipments weekly, totaling more than 10,000 new items each week! So it is just a myth that the current Marshalls and T.J. Maxx just has leftover merchandise that department stores don’t want. Less than 15 percent of merchandise is non-trend driven or past season, and these items are clearly marked as “past-season” on the price tag.

4. Marshalls and T.J. Maxx also has merchandise that isn’t in department or specialty stores. That’s because off-price buyers travel the world to offer “treasures”, including gorgeous leather footwear from Italy; luxurious soaps from France; and fine crystal from Germany.

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After I got the insight into the companies, it was time to talk fashion. I admit I am not a fashion guru by a long shot, so it was great to get the experts to share the latest looks. So, now that we all have an idea of wear to shop on a budget, let’s get fashionable. This is what you need to remember when hitting the stores this spring and summer: natural, nautical, floral, tribal and colorful. Easy to remember, right?

 

Au Natural

Utility shirts and non-denim bottoms like chinos, cargo shorts and pants, and convertible pants

Tan, beige, green and grey trench coats in a variety of materials and cuts

Pocket details and roll tabs on tops and bottoms

Brightly colored accessories like necklaces and belts

Subtle animal prints and large, saturated floral patterns

Sky-high wedges with strap embellishments

 

 

Great American Sportswear

Polished separates like casually-tailored jackets and seersucker skirts

Nautical and novelty stripes on tops and bottoms

Linen suits and dresses

Skirts of all kinds: long pencil, A-line or flirty and swingy

Denim trousers and blazers

Pumps in suede and leather, and boat shoes in all colors

 

 

Feminine and Floral

Watercolor floral prints in rich jewel tones or softer cosmetic shades

Layered knit cardigans in a variety of styles: shrugs, cascades, tissue, or drape.

Tiered tops and skirts in silky, flowing fabrics

Dresses, shirts and blouses with lace, ruffles, embroidery, eyelet and crochet accents

Necklaces with bows and matte sequins and handbags with botanical prints

Strappy neutral or metallic sandals with soft rosettes

 

 

White with Black and Color

The “little white dress,” a seasonal update to the classic little black dress

White pants or capris paired with colorful tunics

White or black tailored jackets over primary colored knit tops

Black and white patterned dresses and high-waisted skirts

Pearl accents in jewelry and footwear

 

 

 

Tribal Inspiration

All-over prints on everything from tops and tunics to handbags and bracelets

Loose-fitting dresses and tops cinched with leather belts

Peasant blouses with artisan touches like beading and embroidery

Different patterns on tops and bottoms for a wild, mismatched look

Uneven or fringed hemlines on skirts and dresses

Gladiator sandals with stones and animal print accents

 

 

Color Infusion

Crisp sportswear like blazers and button-downs in rich jewel tones

Tops and bottoms in different shades with a solid or multicolored belt

Contrasting trims around necklines and sleeves

Asymmetrical, brightly-colored skirts, dresses and tops to add interest to simple garments

Bold-hued fabrics with beautiful draping and sheen like silk and satin

Espadrilles or strappy leather heels in neutrals

 

The segments above are inspiring, but what pieces should you be on the lookout to spice up your spring/summer wardrobe? Here is the low-down on what you should have in your closet this spring and summer for all of the Mommy life-adventures.

 

A Dress - Dresses continue to be popular, especially for the spring and summer temperatures.

Date Night: A little white dress with laser cut or lace accents paired with either bright or black accessories.

Playgroup: A solid colored maxi dress cinched at the waist with a color blocked belt in bright colors like teal and purple.

Working-Mom: A crochet dress in a saturated spice color, accessorized with tribal printed bangles and a leather and crochet clutch.

 

Versatile Tops - From tank tops to tunics, you can find one to fit the Mommy lifestyle, even if you are currently breastfeeding or chasing after a toddler (think bending over to pick the sippy cup off the floor and trying not to show the boobies).

Date Night: Silk tops with cut-outs, one shoulder and asymmetrical hemlines add interest to flowing pants in neutral hues.

Playgroup: A military-inspired shirt or vest with pocket detail and roll tabs paired with a feminine skirt or shorts.

Working-Mom:  Knit tops in blush tones with ruffle and lace detail.

 

Wide-Leg Denim - After so many seasons of the skinny fit, wide-leg denim is making a comeback. (My post-baby thighs and hips are so grateful for this fashion change!)

Date Night: Palazzo pants and tribal-printed halter top with strappy heels and lots of jewelry.

Playgroup: A pair of flared denim with a printed tee, belted military-style anorak and ‘flatform’ shoes – platforms without the wedge incline.

Working-Mom: Denim trousers with a cropped white sailor jacket and red wedge heels. Or a higher-waisted pair of jeans, striped top and a tucked-in oxford. Accessorize with a skinny belt and open-toe heels.

 

Long Full Skirt - Longer skirts are the newest must-have hemline. You can look stylish even sitting on the floor in playgroup.

Date Night: Figure-flattering pencil skirts at just below, or just above the knee look fabulous belted with a feminine floral top.

Playgroup: African-influenced patterns, clashing stripes and paintbrush strokes on mid-length and maxi skirts can be mixed with unexpected patterns on top.

Working-Mom: A nude/beige pleated skirt that falls just below the knees with sheer layers on top and lace and ruffle details.

 

Updated Accessories - From neon to bright white to stripes and prints galore, here are some of the must-have accessories to amp up the neutral palette and balance out the wilder print combinations of the season, no matter where you are going: 1. Stacks of big and bold bangles in combinations of different materials like wood, metal and plastic in bright colors or animal prints. 2. Tribal earrings, necklaces with beading and belts with geometric closures add an exotic influence. 3. 70s-inspired sunglasses, from aviators to oversize lenses, are hot in both bright colors and tortoise shell frames. 4. Handbags in leather or vinyl with laser cuts come in printed or solid fabric, nylon and straw materials. Structured styles complement the popular geometric shapes on clothing. 5. Shoes with details like bows or flowers. 6. Gladiator inspired shoes are still hot as well. 7. Light scarfs and hats are also a fashionable spring and summer accessory.

Congrats to Beth! Stay tuned for more fun giveaways everyone!

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So it is time to get shopping. To help you out, I am giving away a $25 gift card to Marshalls/T.J. Maxx, plus two surprise accessories to spice up your look. To enter, just leave a comment below about your favorite fashion trend.

Rules: (Gotta have them)

Leave a comment about this post. One comment permitted per person; US entrants welcome. Include your name and email in the appropriate fields so I can contact you if you win.* (Including just first name or first name + last initial is OK!). Anonymous or SPAM-like comments will be discarded. Entry period closes at 11:59PM EST, Wednesday, March 30, 2011.

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*One lucky winner (drawn randomly via Random.org) will receive the $25 gift card and two accessories. The winner will be notified directly via e-mail, then listed back at this post using first name only.

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Disclosure: I received a $25 gift card myself for attending the media event. Can’t wait to go shopping myself!

Image Credits: Marshalls and T.J. Maxx

 

March 21st, 2011

Clarisonic Skin Care System

This first post kicks off Fashion and Beauty Week here at CharleneChronicles. Five days of posts showcasing the upcoming spring fashion trends, hot new beauty products, tips on taking the time to pamper yourself, and more.

The first Fashion and Beauty Week post is about the Clarisonic Skin Care Brush. It is a face-scrubbing-electric-brush that helps you get a deep, exfoliating and gentle facial cleanse. According to Clarisonic.com, it is as twice as effective as traditional facial cleaning methods because it has 300 movements per second using sonic technology. It is also waterproof, rechargeable and portable. Cool features is that it is programmed to give you one minute of facial cleansing timed to each part of your face. Thus, you can do it in your sleep as my video shows below. You can even get an extra scrubbing attachment for the body.

It is a high-priced item (retail ~$195), but it does cut down on the need for facials, which may in the end, pay for itself. If you can swing the price tag, the one minute/twice-a-day product, that has resulted in my skin looking better than it has in years, is worth every penny.

January 26th, 2011

Who Wants a Weboo? I do!

Unique, clever, cool and funky. Best words to describe these shoes.

What little boy wouldn’t love to roar around in these?

Can totally see a little girl horsing around with these shoes for sure!

With shoes like these, getting kids to put their shoes on may not be such a struggle.

These shoes are by a company called WeBoo and they have a “WeFit System”, which means the shoes have undergone research and development in association with pediatricians, children’s podiatrists, and long time shoe engineers. So while the shoes are funky, they also have the right fit – a system that combines the facilitation of natural foot development with the protection and sturdiness of traditional shoes. So you can be assured that these fun shoes are also good shoes.

You can find them at shoebuy.com or zappos.com.

Let the imagination begin!

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Image Credit: Weboo