April 16th, 2013

I am a Patriot, I am a Bostonian.

I thought I would share some brief thoughts with you about the Boston Marathon bombing. Especially if you are not from Boston.

When I woke up this morning, there was feeling in the air that our city was no longer the same. As I drove my son to preschool, there was hardly a car on the road. The grocery store was quiet, and the parking lot empty. There was a hush in the air as if the birds themselves wanted a moment of silence.

Yesterday at this time, it was Patriots Day. A day of history and promise. It was opening day at Fenway and the buzz in the air from fans energized the city. It was the start of school vacation week and the city was awash in excitement.

A stark contrast today.

boston marathon bombing

 

I am fortunate to have my family and friends safe. Yet, having run the Boston Marathon five times, and with many training runs in between, it feels really personal. The last time I ran the Boston Marathon, I ran it in 4 hours and 10 minutes. All you can do is look at the video footage and you can see what I mean by hitting home.

I have bought all of my running gear at that Boston Marathon Sports location where the first bomb went off. I know what the store looks like from the inside. I know the people. I have met the race directors who were planning for this very horror that they hoped would never occur. I know the Medical Director at Brigham and Women’s Hospital and despite all of the his planning meetings, probably had hoped never to see the gruesome scene he had to witness. I know my Chiropractor was working on the runners. That my friend was 1/8 of a mile away about to turn onto Boylston Street. That my former teammates were there, as were their families. That my in-laws were watching the race at the finish line. I was planning on running this year, but decided to have the abdominal reconstructive surgery instead. Would it have been my husband, my Mom, my son or daughter that day? It hits home.

All I can say is that we are a unique city that some have described as one big dysfunctional family, but when one threatens us, we band together. Fiercely. Loyally. The definition of Patriot is “A person who vigorously supports their country and is prepared to defend it against enemies or detractors”. Blood has been spilt there before, during the Revolution, and that fierceness to protect and defend makes up the fiber of our bones.

I was born and raised here. I went to school here. My Mom was born here, as was her mother, and her mother, and so on. I’ve worked in Boston, I have lived in Boston.

I am a Bostonian.

As I write this, it has been 24 hours ago that the bombing in Boston occurred. Our city will not be the same. Despite the 117 year history of Boston Marathon, it won’t be the same. I wish I could go back in time to tell the people to run away, to tell the family not to go in that day, to somehow make it so that it would never happen. But I cannot.

What I can do, and what we all can do, is fight for our way of life, and for our American dreams. We will not forget the injured, the lost, the wounded and the hurt.

We will be strong and we will continue our heritage….as Bostonians….as Patriots.

 

March 25th, 2013

Easter Baskets, Hersheys and Thankfulness

I was so excited to get a complimentary Hersheys Easter Basket, filled with chocolatey goodness, again this year to share on my blog. If you celebrate Easter, who doesn’t love to get Easter Baskets? It is like getting a surprise delivery of fruit or flowers for your birthday.

Yet, when I opened the box containing the basket of Hersheys Kisses, York Peppermint Patties and Reeses Peanut Butter cups, I knew that I wouldn’t be tasting the chocolate this year. I immediately packed it in the car, along with my two kids and drove 90 minutes to a long term care/rehabilitation facility where my grandmother was dying. Though I had spent the weekend visiting her bedside, the basket prompted my sudden visit again despite the fact that I knew she was in a coma and could not hear me.

My plan was to deliver it to the nurses who had been taking such great care of my grandmother. She had been there for rehab for about a month when her kidneys suddenly failed. After a lot of thought, she chose not to under go dialysis and knew that she, as a result, would only have a few days to live. The nurses were so wonderful to us. Whether it was finding Cheese-Its for my son, sandwiches for the long days, or a cup of coffee and a Kleenex, they made her comfortable and provided comfort to us.

On that day, as I walked into the room with the two kids in tow and the basket in hand, my grandmother was awake. It was completely unexpected and my mother was in tears. She knew that it was an amazing moment that we didn’t expect, nor thought we would get. For about an hour, we spoke with her, though she could not speak. We held her hand, though she could not hold ours. She was able to hear us though and could give a kiss though she did not have the strength for a hug. Her mouth formed a smile when she saw my son. Her face lit up when she saw her first great granddaughter. Soon she was asleep again, and while I didn’t know it at the time, it was the last time I saw her. She passed away the next day before I could see her again.

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If it wasn’t for the basket, I probably wouldn’t have made the trip that day, and wouldn’t have had that amazing moment with her. It is a great reminder this Easter to think about who you could say thanks to. Is it a teacher or a nanny, a nurse or doctor, a neighbor or a friend? While we often think of the Easter Bunny hoping down the bunny trail delivering baskets to girls and boys, perhaps it is also a great time to have the Easter Bunny hop down the grateful trail and to count the kisses we have been given and have given in return. Hersheys chocolate hugs and chocolate kisses may be the perfect way to say thanks and I love you.

Who would you say thanks to?

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Disclosure: Images are my own. All rights reserved. I received a complimentary Easter Basket from Hersheys. However, all thoughts, opinions and content is my own.

 

March 22nd, 2013

What to do with Black Jelly Beans

There are not too many people that like black jelly beans, resulting in people picking around them in the jelly bean bowl. As a result, you have the black jelly bean remnants that are usually tossed away. I’m not sure why there are black jelly beans in the various jelly beans bags at Easter anyway. Jelly beans are associated with spring – pretty colors of green, pink, yellow, cream, and purple. The black ones seem a bit out of place. Sort of the goth bean in the midst of the perky cheerleader beans.

So what to do with the black sheep in the jelly bean bag. Here are six ideas on what to do with black jelly beans, other than eat them.

what to do with black jelly beans

1. Make black jelly bean infused vodka. Don’t drink? That’s okay. Makes a great gift for an office worker. Take 15 black jelly beans and add to 14 oz of high proof spirit in a pretty glass jar. Infuse for 72 hours. Remove the black jelly beans. Add 13 oz of simple syrup. Tie a black ribbon around the jar with a black and white card. Viola.

2. Save them for Halloween. Then you can make various cupcakes using black jelly beans for decorations – like this recipe for Eyeball Cupcakes using the black jelly beans for the pupil.

3. Put it in your Medicine Cabinet. No really, if you get black jelly beans made with real black licorice, there are many health benefits as licorice can reduce inflammation for a variety of health conditions. I bet the yellow jelly beans can’t say that!

4. Use them for a Fundraiser. Make the black jelly beans feel important. Ask friends and family to save all of the black jelly beans and put them in a jar for a school fundraiser. Have people donate a dollar for an entry to guess how many black jelly beans are in the jar to win a prize donated by a local business.

5. Alternative to a Lump of Coal. My Dad used to say if we were bad, Santa would bring us a lump of coal instead of toys. My Dad could have saved the black jelly beans and said that, due to environmental concerns, Santa couldn’t bring coal and brought a lump of stale black jelly beans instead.

6. Prevent leaks. Save them for a warm summer day. Place one in the bottom of an ice cream cone to prevent the ice cream from leaking out at the bottom.

The poor black jelly. It may not get eaten, but it will not be forgotten.

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Image Credit: Original image from cbgrfx123 via photopin cc
Disclosure: I did not receive any compensation for this post.

 

March 21st, 2013

Disney Social Media Moms Conference 2013 – #DisneySMMoms

I am beyond trilled and have pasted enthralled on my way to utter ecstatic-ness about attending the Disney Social Media Moms Conference.

 

Disney Social Media Moms Conference

 

What I am enjoying the most is chatting about all things Disney with fellow #DisneySMMoms. Everything from tips on water parks and how much money to bring for souvenirs. As we chat, and I share my 30+ years of Disney experiences, I figured I’d share my responses in hope that it may help one of you! While I have written a lot of Disney posts on this blog, everything from StrollersNew Fantasyland, and Tips with Toddlers, here are some more ideas to consider!

So here we go! First up, How to Save Money on Souvenirs at Disney World!