March 30th, 2012

Tips for Passing Down Electronic Devices to Your Kids

With tech gadgets being released at a rapid pace, your phone, laptop or tablet is outdated the minute you walk out the door. At some point, most of us upgrade and it’s usually our smartphones. I finally broke down 4 months ago and upgraded my iPhone 3 for the iPhone 4s.

Since my iPhone 3 still worked, I decided to make it “special toy” for my toddler when we go out to eat at restaurants. I’ll admit, for the primary purpose for us being able to eat. If you are a parent that can eat and have a 2 year old who sits quietly next to you, I applaud your parenting skills. However, if my situation resonates with you, then you may appreciate these tips.

According to a PBS KIDS survey, about 25% of parents with children between 2 and 10 years old will find a second life for their personal tech devices by handing them down to their kids. Yet, with multi-tablet and multi-smartphone families becoming the norm, here are some ideas from PBS KIDS (and me) to keep kids safe when using these ‘pass-downed devices’.

Sweep it: All devices should be cleaned of any content including personal files, credit card information, etc. before handing down to kids. Parents should swipe all their browser “cookies” and perform an application sweep.

Secure it: There are parental controls on most tech devices that can turn certain features on and off. Settings on the iPhone, for example, that can be restricted include explicit song titles, Internet browser, YouTube, iTunes and the camera.

Set limits: As with any new toy, parents should set expectations and limitations with their kids when the device is handed down, and should encourage other forms of learning and play beyond the screen. Like I mentioned above, we only use it for “special” events.

Set age-appropriate apps: A good app is the perfect combination of education and entertainment, and should be appropriate for your child’s age and stage of development. Avoid apps that try to sell: Apps labeled “lite” or “free” often attempt to make money by trying to sell while a child is playing a game, or link to another related app that requires payment to download. For little kids, that can be frustrating. At a minimum, require a password to download items so you don’t get a large credit card bill.

Set it in a protective case: Adults are known for dropping their electronic devices. Kids more so. So make sure to buy a great case that can resist scratches and provide great impact protection.

All in all, for kids today, they have never lived in a world without voicemail, internet or cell phones, and the technology world is going to be entrenched in their future. So early use can be beneficial in learning. However, everything in moderation and with the above ‘safety tips’ in mind.

Any other ideas to share?

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March 28th, 2012

How to Apply No-Follow Rule to All Your Links

No Follow LinksMany bloggers log onto their blogs and post about their day, their life, the latest giveaway or product review they have, and log off. Without understanding, in that short time, they inadvertently violated a half dozen rules and laws. But since the laws and rules keep changing, it is hard to keep up.

Case in point, Google came a few years ago and said they would shut down websites that had followable paid-links. More recently, they clarified that it isn’t just paid links but links in posts in which you may have received some sort of compensation. For example, that blender you got to review, and then linked to the fabulous blender company, in the post about said blender? Yeah, that link.

When I saw that, I went into panic mode. How many links did I have that violated this revamped Google policy? (Over 1000…apparently I link a lot.) Can you imagine having to go back and retroactively apply the no-follow rule to all your links? Luckily, you don’t.

For those of you who are really in legal la-la-land, and are wondering what nofollow is, it is an HTML attribute value used to tell search engines that a link should not influence the link target’s ranking in the search engine’s index. In other words, Google wants you to clean up your act so it can make its job easier.

It is rather a simple code you apply after the url. It looks like this:

rel=”nofollow”

Or even more specifically: <a href=”http://www.url.com” rel=”nofollow”

But if you have a WordPress blog, you can have a plugin do the work for you. Two great plugins to consider are NoLiP and Outbound Link Manager. The NoLiP plugin enables you to add the “nofollow” attribute into links within a post in a specific category. This plugin is useful if you are doing sponsored posts. You can set the plugin to add the “nofollow” attribute for posts older than “X” days too. The Outbound Link Manager is perfect for dealing with all those past links you need to have unfollowed. You can unfollow or even follow in bulk. There is still a bit of manual work, but it is a lot easier than going from post to post.

All in all, being a blogger is not just about fun giveaways or cool product reviews, but staying on top of rules too. Luckily, on this issue, it is easy to comply – especially with the vast array of plugins to help.

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March 27th, 2012

Baby Showers for Second Time Moms

Baby Shower Sprinkles and Gender Reveal PartiesIf you haven’t been following my blog posts, you need to go here and here because of the cool Gender Reveal Party I’m hosted in-person and online. Which leads me to this post about baby registries.

As a soon-to-be second-time Mom, I am pretty sure I’m not getting a shower this time around as very few of us have baby showers like we did for our first baby. Especially if you are having the same gender or they are close in age. For some reason, many feel you must be an expert and have everything covered, or that you really don’t care that you are having a second baby and thus, don’t want to celebrate your huge belly again.

It makes me sad on some levels that the excitement is often not given for subsequent children. Aren’t they just as special? Others claim having a shower for a second child is in bad taste – that you are just looking for someone to throw you a party so you can get more gifts. My response to that is – don’t we have birthday parties for the same reason? But it is a valid response.

Depending on your family, culture and life situation, which varies for all of us, I think, however, there is a way to approach second-time showers – otherwise known as sprinkles (get it?) – that can take the focus of gift groveling and put it on celebrating your cutie, if you so choose to go that route. Such as:

     

  • Clearly stating in the Invitation you don’t want gifts.
  • Knowing that some will feel awkward showing up empty-handed, ask for diapers in lieu of gifts. Perhaps ask your guest to just bring a new book for the new baby, with an inspirational saying written by the gifter on the inside.
  • If you don’t know the sex of the baby, have them guess by bringing something pink or blue. Then when the baby arrives, keep either the pink or blue items, depending on the gender, and donate the other to charity.

 
However, depending on your personal circumstances, it may be helpful to create a baby registry for your second bundle of joy. Just keep the total number of items on the registry small and inexpensive. Some ideas are:

     

  • Must-have nursery items like new onesies, pacifiers, bottles or sheets since the previous sets have seen many-a-blowout from baby number one.
  • Include other items that you need to duplicate, like getting another sound machine or diaper pail since your first is still using those items.
  • You could put a large item on the registry, like a double stroller, but large ticket items like these should only be one or two items in your entire registry.
  • For other ideas for your registry for baby number two, follow my Pinterest Boards here.

Examples of Items on a Second Time Mom baby registry
 
Whether you have a shower/sprinkle for your second (or subsequent) children or not, still enjoy your pregnancy. Find other ways to celebrate like hosting a Meet the Baby party after your little one is born or a Gender Reveal Party. And even if you don’t have any of these things, you will be getting the best celebration and gift of them all – a new member of your family.

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March 26th, 2012

Baby Gender Reveal Post Party

Here is a post-baby gender reveal party video with images to recap the night!

I still cannot believe we now know the gender and that we got to celebrate with friends, family and with over 1400 people online that night (and over 2 million impressions). It was such a blast combining something simple like an old-fashioned baby shower of sorts, with a modern twist in a futuristic techy way. But since this is the future that this little one will be living in, kinda makes sense!

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It's a Girl!