January 31st, 2012

Tips for Blissdom Alum

There is a lot of talk about what newcomers to Blissdom can do to have a great experience and a great time at Blissdom. Everything from how to prepare your kids and your partner for your absence, to what great pair of shoes to bring and what to pack in your suitcase. If the newcomer, however, is standing in the corner at lunch with fabulous shoes and a great new sweater, then it is a fail.

Much of the onus is on new Blissdom attendees to personally shape the outcome of their own Blissdom experience, but we would be amiss if we didn’t talk about how the actions of Blissdom alum can be a big part of the newcomer experience too.

Tip #1
1. Don’t immediately mention how many years you have been blogging. I really don’t know many professionals that do that. For example, when people ask me what I do for a living, I say I am an attorney. I don’t say, I am an attorney and I have been writing laws for 15 years. Sure, it is who you are, but make it part of a conversation later on. Otherwise, you are just going to freak out the newcomer who will now think her new blog she started last year is not worthy of anything.

Tip #2
In our advice to newcomers, we tell them not to be afraid to walk up to people and say hello. Or if you see a space at a table for lunch, sit down with women you don’t know. However, if you are that person who is already sitting at a table with your best blogging buds, don’t turn your head back to the conversation after someone sits down. Make eye contact, smile and perhaps mention what is the topic of conversation. Then make sure to share inside jokes at the table, like “We are all laughing because Charlene had to sing karaoke during her legal panel last year because the sound system didn’t work.” (Sadly, a true story…)

Tip #3
There are going to be a lot of crowded rooms for various sessions that are really popular, but if you see a new mom with her baby, a pregnant woman, or a blogger in a knee cast, offer your seat even if it means catching up with friends after the session is over. I know it seems like a no-brainer, but sometimes we can get lost in the chatter and forget to look up and see that someone needs some help (or a new friend).

Tip #4
It has been mentioned that newcomers will see tweets about dinner plans being made and that they should jump into the fray. In reality, that is easier said than done. If your group does want to invite other people to come along, say it in your tweets. It makes it a lot easier for someone else to jump in to the dinner-making plans if they know you are welcoming.

Tip #5
A lot of bloggers know each other from years of blogging or going to blog conferences, and they will say they are not being cliquey, but just catching up. That is true, but it still looks cliquey regardless of intentions. So consciously leave an empty chair or leave a gap in a standing circle. If you happen to see someone looking for a seat in a session or at breakfast, flag them over. Blogging besties are great, but so is meeting new bloggers.

Tip #6
Break away from the pack. Again, it is natural to hang with people you know, but once a day, go solo. See who you will meet. Put aside your number of Twitter followers or your power in the Blogaverse and keep it real. Get back to your roots and find inspiration in a new friend. People follow you because they think you are funny or cool. Show them it is real.

All in all, our individual Bliss comes from what we put into it. Our Blissdom experience can be fierce based on what comes out of it. So if you are a newcomer reading this, welcome, and take all the advice and make it work for you. But if you are a Blissdom alum, the newcomer experience starts with us. There are a lot of fabulous people to meet, so meet them halfway.

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Charlene is a Vlogging Community Leader at Blissdom and is always up for hanging with people and making new blogging friends. Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, Google+ – you will find her there. And then at Blissdom 2012!

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January 31st, 2012

HATCHEDit Online Family Management

If you have kids, a spouse, babysitter, dog walker, PTA meetings, Moms groups, sports schedule, dance classes, and grandparents (just to name a few), it can be hard to juggle. And remember where to be. And to whom to remind to do XYZ. Sounds like you might need HATCHEDit

If you are a Mac user and your partner a PC user, we all know that can spell sync-ing disaster that usually requires a separate calendar. Emails clog our inboxes as we try to plan Mom events. Trying to follow an email stream as to when to pick up whom where and when can be parental overload.

Two Moms wanted a better way and created an online management system to help us juggle it all. Send invites, have a shared contact list, coordinate calendars for up to 8 people, plan events with other users – all in one platform. It is called HATCHEDit.

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For example, if the grandparents are watching the kids for the weekend, they can have access to your calendar so they know where to be and when. Give the babysitter access to key contacts, like the pediatrician, without having to leave notes everywhere. Don’t want them to see the details of your Mom group? You can determine what extent you give access to your full account.

The hubby can add his activities and events with his own color code, and each child can have their own, all on one master calendar. Have a running stream for planning who is bringing drinks, apps or dessert at the next Mom night out. Easily upload your existing contacts and create reoccurring events. While the product is still in beta-land, the platform is already robust and will keep getting better. For example, Andriod and iPhone apps by the end of February, and a To-Do list function.

So if you need a better way to be organized in 2012, you should definitely check it out. Watch the video overview and know that you can be organized in less than 24 hours. For free.

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Image Credit: HATCHEDit.com

Disclosure: I learned about this company at a sponsored event. All opinions and thoughts are my own.

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January 30th, 2012

Making Math Fun

Basic Math EquationIt is a worry of mine that my children will struggle as I did with arithmetic, geometry, and algebra. Yet, a lot of the struggles can be avoided with a few points to consider.

At a Math is Fun event hosted by Dads Do Good and sponsored by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt (a Boston-based company), I listened to a panel of math experts, who shared their strategies for making math fun.

First, don’t panic. Just because you don’t know algebra doesn’t mean it is a hopeless cause. Be calm and your kids will pick up on your enthusiasm (and not your own dread.)

Second, be involved. While it is natural to shy away from things we don’t understand and don’t enjoy, be involved with your child’s math curriculum and their teacher. Ask questions and get lesson plans.

Third, make it fun. There are a variety of online games and tablet apps. While they are not a substitution, they are a great enhancement to reinforce, renew or challenge at a variety of math levels.

Fourth, think outside the box. Use everyday activities to incorporate math. Do you like to watch the TV show Deal or No Deal? Learn about probabilities!

While society can do a lot more to make math interesting, fun and fabulous, it can start a home. No matter at what age.

These were some apps and websites that the panel recommended for parents and kids alike. Hopefully one is right for you!

  • BrainPop - Subscription based online educational website for a variety of subjects, including Math.
  • ABCya - Free online educational kids computer games and activities for kids in pre-K through grade 5.
  • The Learning Company – an online website where you can print out math workbooks.
  • Number Stax – App for the iPad and iPhone teaching valuable math fundamentals and algebra practice for children 12+.
  • HMH Fuse – App for the iPad with a full length curriculum for Algebra 1, Algebra 2 and Geometry.
  • Singapore Math, Bar Models – a method to help kids grades 2-5 master problem solving skills.
  • Carmen Sandiego Adventures in Math – a new Wii game where kids can interact with math content to solve clues.

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    Disclosure: I attended a sponsored event where I learned about these tips and resources. However, the thoughts and opinions are my own.

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January 27th, 2012

Weekend Fun in Metrowest

Pretty good weekend on the schedule! So I had to put together a whole blog post to share it all. If you know of anything else, please share! Otherwise, have fun!

All Weekend

Lincoln Winter Carnival – Lincoln
The Winter Carnival is a annual event sponsored by the Recreation Committee designed to foster a sense of community throughout the Town of Lincoln. Lots of events and most are free or low-cost.
Friday, Jan 27, 2012 - Sunday, Jan 29, 2012

Fire & Ice Days at Old Sturbridge Village - Sturbridge
Old Sturbridge Village embraces the joys of an old fashioned winter with a “Fire and Ice” celebration, complete with ice skating, sledding on vintage 1830s sleds, and horse-drawn sleigh rides. Kids get free admission to OSV.
Saturday, Jan 28 and Sunday, Jan 29, 2012

The 2012 deCordova Biennial - Lincoln 

The 23 artists and collaboratives involved with the unthemed deCordova Biennial exhibition. Wondering if it is family-friendly? It can be.
Saturday, Jan 28, 2012 - Sunday, Jan 29, 2012

Saturday

Fruitlands Winterfest Weekends – Harvard
Create your own fun and winter memories on Fruitlands Museum’s 200 acre wintery wonderland and catch snowy views of towering Tree Figures. Join us on winter Saturdays for skating, snowshoeing, sledding and X-country skiing then warm up with hot chocolate and hotdogs around the bonfire. $20 per car.
Saturday, Jan 28, 2012 

Celebrate Winter Family Day at Spellman Museum – Weston
Using real postage stamps, make snowmen, snowflakes and snowballs. Other arts and crafts with stamps. Stamp games for prizes. Create your own free stamp collecton. Wear mittens and/or ear muffs win a special prize.
Saturday, Jan 28, 2012

Especially for Me! Free Evening for Children on the Autism Spectrum at the Discovery Museum - Acton

Come join in all the fun during this special free evening for families with children on the autism spectrum. Pre-registration required. Visit http://tinyurl.com/EspeciallyforMe2012-1 to register. Funding provided by the Boston Bruins Foundation, Morgan Stanley, Nypro, and the Wayland Cultural Council. Free.
January 28, 2012 5:30p – 8:30p

Sunday

10th Annual Sudbury Camp Fair - Sudbury
80+ camps offering information on day, overnight and travel programs for students in grades K-12. Parents and students can meet and speak with representatives from these camps offering unique programs including travel, community service, arts, sports, academic enrichment and traditional camp options. Free.
Sunday, January 29, 2012

[If you want to head into Boston, here are these two family-friendly events that may be worth the drive.]

Chinese New Year Parade – Boston
Chinatown Main Street welcomes the public to the Chinese New Year Parade. Enjoy a Lion Dance parade, and see your favorite clubs perform all day parading from business to business. Free.
Sunday, Jan 29, 2012

The ICA Third-Annual International Children’s Film Festival – Boston

Kids get their very own film festival with selections created by kids and professionals. Young film buffs will learn about the filmmaking process at demonstrations and hands-on activities. Learn more about the museum here.
Saturday, Jan 28, 2012

Magic Beans Grand Opening – Boston

Flash Mob, Elmo, Music, Discounts, Raffles, Pinkberry. Check out their website for all the free fun and schedule!
Saturday, Jan 28, 2012

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Charlene Chronicles does its best to accurately list the details of the events, but ultimately, the responsibility is for you to check the dates, times and fees.

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January 25th, 2012

Mom Pressures

Mommy_walking_babyLast week, there were two posts by other Bloggers that really resonated with me, and I wanted to pass them along.

The first post was from a Mom of nine children to a Mom of one child. I saw it tweeted and retweeted on Twitter. The writer mentioned when she tells people she is the mother to nine children, other mothers were astonished on how she can handle so many children since they find it hard to be a mother to one. (That would be something I would say!) But her response was amazing and really touched a point within me. I have written before about my struggle transitioning to motherhood and I have always felt very guilty about it. But this writer gave a perspective that provide me with a better understanding that it may be normal to feel that way.

You can read the full post here. It is called: “To the Mother With Only One Child”.

The next post that struck a cord with me was about the pressure of trying to be a happy Mom. We have all had someone mention it….”Enjoy every moment because this time goes by so fast.” Or “You must love being a Mom!” Or the nasty comments where someone criticizes the fact that you aren’t glowing in your “Momdom”. When someone mentions we should love every moment (as our child is screaming in the background or painting the walls with spaghetti sauce) we wonder why we aren’t happy. And get stressed, thinking, “OMG, I should be happy and I am not! What’s wrong with me!”

Her post was about how the concept of Carpe Diem (living in the moment) really does not relate to Mom life when you are counting down the hours to bedtime, why that is okay, and what we can be ‘diem-ing’ instead. You can read the post called, “Don’t Carpe Diem” here.

So if you are a happy Mom or a Mom who has it figured out, rock on. Otherwise, rock on over to these two posts. Maybe it will provide you with some comfort that you are not alone.

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January 24th, 2012

Video Blogging Product Must Haves

As a Video Community Leader at Blissdom 2012, I want to make you super savvy in video blogging. The first step is eliminate fear. (You can do it.) Once you get over that hurdle, the next step is to determine what tools you need to get started.

Frankly, all you need is a computer with a webcam and video editing software. Or just a smartphone with a link to YouTube. However, there are some other fun products to consider if you want to take your video on the go (or to the next level).

So check out my Pinterest Board on my “Video Blogging Must Haves” that I think are super fabulous. And follow me on Twitter or Facebook to see the video series I have on key tips to consider when creating your videos!

 

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January 23rd, 2012

Pregnancy Symptoms

Pregnancy BellyDealing with pregnancy myths is one thing, dealing with pregnancy symptoms is another.

You know those times when you wake up and wonder where the heck you are? Why you are wearing one sock, a hat and nothing else?

For those of you that have experienced that, you must have had some great college years. I can only blame it on my pregnancy.

The hot flashes, which explains the no clothes. The cold flashes, which I guess explains the one sock and hat. The itchy skin, the nose bleeds, the dry mouth one minute and the drool the next, or the nausea one minute and the binge eating the other. I finally realized that many of these symptoms was like the aftermath of a raging party. Sadly, the only party that one is having in this house right now is the baby I am currently pregnant with and whom is currently kicking me in my bladder. (I’m a little nervous that the smell of pee may not be a figment of my imagination.)

Recently on Twitter, my Metrowest Mamas Facebook page, and my Charlene Chronicles Facebook page, I asked many of you what pregnancy symptoms do you remember the most? Here’s what you many of you stated: vomiting, bed rest, need for naps, bladder kicks, irritable uterus, kicked ribs, pinched nerves, gum bleeds, sleepless nights, people commenting on your size, fatigue, mood swings, and many more!

Fun times, right?

Oh, but if you haven’t been pregnant before, don’t worry. About 99% of us would say it is all worth it. The other 1% just can’t be reached for comment.

If you didn’t get to weigh in before, do share all the lovely symptoms that you didn’t see coming in your past (or current) pregnancy. Misery loves company and it will make it seem more like a raging party after all.

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January 23rd, 2012

Pompeii Exhibit Review

Museum of Science BostonI’ll be honest, I am not a big art person. You won’t find me hanging out at art galleries or traveling to see the latest exhibit, but when I was provided the opportunity to see the “A Day in Pompeii” exhibit at the Museum of Science (Boston), I was tempted to go.

I have always been interested in Roman, Greek and Eyptian history and this was about a civilization that was destroyed, yet preserved, as a result of a volcanic eruption in 79 A.D. For 17 centuries, the city remained lost, forgotten and preserved. It was rediscovered in the 1700s, building by building, street by street, and room by room. It was the most complete and intact ancient city that has ever been discovered. Beautiful art work, furniture, jewelry, insights into the daily lives of the people who lived and worked there, show many similarities to our modern day society. Medical tools, cooking utensils, and beauty supplies were all discovered. Sadly, many individuals were also discovered, preserved under volcanic ash and debris from a natural disaster that, from scientific research, happens once every 2000 years.

The exhibit is only open until February 12, 2012 here in Boston, but it is traveling around the country, so check to see if it will be near you. It is definitely worth a date night to spend some time learning about the people and the lives they lived, as well as details of a volcanic eruption beyond the scope that many of us know as Mt. St. Helens.

Here are some samples of the art, sculptures and artifacts from the exhibit. (Non-flash photography is allowed in the exhibit.) Note that these are real – not reproductions.

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As a mentioned before, while the volcanic debris preserved various artifacts, it also preserved the people who were not able to escape. The exhibit shows some of that (though just cast molds). I didn’t feel comfortable sharing those out of respect and it is just something that needs to be experienced rather than seen. If you want to avoid that section you can, as it is in a separate space. (Also good if you don’t want to explain to children.) But based on research, over the years, they have been able to re-create what an average Pompeii citizen would look like.

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I wouldn’t say it is a great place to bring young children. While many of the pieces are behind glass, some are not, and there are signs everywhere saying “Don’t Touch”. Furthermore, it is more adult-like and many younger children would be very bored. So get a babysitter and check it out before it leaves Boston (next stop is Cincinnati, OH). It was amazing, moving, and haunting. So if you can’t fly to Pompeii, this is the next best thing.

YouTube Video also available courtesy of the Boston Museum of Science.

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Image Credit: My own.

Disclosure: I received free admission from the Museum of Science to attend the exhibit. The thoughts and opinions of this post are my own.

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January 21st, 2012

Museums and Kids

Museum of Science BostonIn the heart of winter, there often seems like there is nothing to do. How many play spaces can we take our kids to anyway? Baring the endless summer (and various school vacations), the months of January and February (with the cold and snow) requires some strategic thinking…and new places to visit.

It is around this time that I suggest checking out Museums. Yes, you read that right, and no, it does not have to be boring. While it may have been boring to many of us while growing up,  a significant number of Museums and Galleries in and around Boston, have changed their models to make art and science kid-friendly and welcoming. They want you to come…and bring your kids too.

Musuem of Fine Art. (All Ages)

On the weekends, from 10am-4pm, the MFA has the Family Art Cart for families with children ages four and up. Piece together puzzles, learn mythical tales, and uncover ancient Egyptian mysteries. They have an ever-changing array of interactive activities, books and Art Cards, and you can borrow a tote bag equipped with a sketch-book and colored pencils. Everyone is happy. They even have special monthly playdate events for kids under 4 years old.

Museum of Science (All Ages)

We all know that this place rocks for the elementary, middle school and high school set. But even toddlers can find the space filled with wondrous things to explore. So don’t let the fact you have a child under the age of five deter you from visiting. There are lots of things to do if you know where to look. I pulled together some ideas worth considering, and how the whole family can enjoy the space.

Institute of Contemporary Art. (All Ages)

A newer Museum in the Boston scene, it does not lack the family-friendly vibe. While Friday nights may cater to young professionals and a date-night activity, it is a great space to visit on the weekends with the whole family. Here is a past review I wrote to showcase the fun to be had at any age.

deCordova Museum (All Ages)

Whether you’re exploring the Sculpture Park in the summer (kids love running around and babies can snooze in the stroller) or discovering technique and material in the indoor Museum, deCordova is a great place for families to expose kids to art! Their website has great tips on how to get children engaged when visiting, and they have family activity kits that are free and available at the front desk to give kids activities and questions to consider as you explore. They also have story hours and other special programs.

So if you are looking for something different to do this winter, check out one of the Museums listed above. Also check your local library for special passes and if you have a family favorite Museum you like to go to, leave a comment below and share with other Moms and Dads!

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Image Credit: My own.

Disclosure: I received no compensation for this post. All thoughts and opinions are my own.

 

 

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January 20th, 2012

Boston Museum Of Science

Head to the Boston Museum of Science any day of the week, and you will see school-aged kids on field trips or families on the weekend. But what about kids under the age of five? Will they enjoy the museum as much as their school-aged counterparts?

The answer is yes, but in a different way. While some of the activities are clearly aimed at older children, there is fun to be had at every age…if you know where to look.

I spent an hour one morning quickly touring the Museuem with my ‘Toddler-Mom’ eyes. These are the exhibits, or features of exhibits, that I thought could fascinate, enthrall or other capture a toddlers attention.

For example, in this exhibit, older children can press buttons to light up objects to learn to identify certain animals. For a two year old, just pressing all the buttons is sure to provide lots of entertainment. Just watching the lights turn on and off is fabulous for a three year old.

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There is an anatomy section that will enthrall budding scientist but may scare or otherwise be confusing to a toddler. But as you walk by, stop and see the eggs with little hatching chicks. Expect to spend some time as most toddlers will be sooo excited to watch.

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Plan on watching this contraption. The balls, the sounds and the bells will provide many minutes of entrainment for the toddler set. Frankly, I love watching it too.

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There is also a monkey exhibit. What child doesn’t like to see monkeys jumping around?

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In the science related areas, there are some things that even toddler’s can enjoy. While the science component of light and reflections are well over  a toddler’s comprehension, they will still enjoy seeing themselves in mirrors and making goofy faces.

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This is a fun play area to check out. It can be overrun by teenagers, but on a quiet day or early in the morning, toddlers can run around and explore.

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The Math section is even over my head, but seeing and hearing the clinging and clanking will cause most toddlers to investigate.

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There are fish….

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And butterflies (real ones too…)

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And don’t forget the Dinosaurs and Lions! (Oh my.)

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So take a morning to have fun with your little ones. Make a playdate, or schedule a weekend family outing. Plenty of space for strollers and easy to find elevators. For non-members, children under 3 are free, children 3-11 are $19, and adults are $22 for admission to the exhibits. If you are member, everyone is free. Always check your local library for passes or discounts. For parking and hours, check the website for details. But they typically open at 9am so you can get a solid three hours to explore before grabbing lunch in the expansive kid-friendly food court or heading home for lunch and nap time.

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Image Credit: My own.

Disclosure: I received free admission, thanks to the Museum of Science, to attend the current Day in Pompeii exhibit and then I voluntarily spent time exploring. All thoughts and opinions are my own.

 

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